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Indian Teachers

December 26, 2006

Indian culture says that Guru (teacher) should be respected as God. This culture continued for many thousands of years. Teacher is the giver of knowledge. They impart wisdom into the young generation for the better future of the country and society.  

What if the teacher strips and parades the boys in school as a method to punish them? Will the culture of respecting the teacher survive after such incidents? Not likely. 

Teacher strips and parades 6-year-old boysBoys are traumatized 

This is what happened in

Guru
Grand
Union
School in Kansai section of the town. Teacher Maria, a modestly dressed young intelligent woman, admits that she sexually abuses young boys but does not feel ashamed or guilty. Is it her wickedness or her confidence in the system that will never punish her for whatever she does or maybe both?
She says, “Yes, I did parade them around nude and also took some of them to dark room and threatened them. I can’t beat them up as the law prohibits me from doing so. But when they do not study, their parents come and confront me. I had no choice but to teach them a lesson so that they concentrate on their studies.” Does law allow the teachers to strip young boys and parade them in school? Does law allow teachers to humiliate the dignity of boys?    

Horrifying tales of what students went through in Maria’s classes began tumbling out after a Class II B student, who was paraded nude through the school on Friday, refused to attend school the next day. The parents, however, believe that these incidents are only the tip of the scandal and that a lot more students were similarly humiliated and abused in the school.   

“The kids are so petrified these days that they refuse to go to school. My kid did not tell me what happened to him on the day he was paraded nude. It was only when Shefali approached us that my son narrated his experience,” said Anju D, another abused boy’s mom. Maybe because our society is still blind to the fact that males too are victimized by a woman, whether by a teacher sexually abusing young boys, or a wife subjecting her husband to verbal and emotional abuse. The society is extremely insensitive toward male gender, be it a grown up man or a little boy. Maria may have committed this grievous crime but it is the society, which is empowering these kinds of women. So long the society continues to generalize that each and every woman is good, the society will suffer like this. 

The school principal was as usual unavailable for comments, which is a sign of protection for Teacher Maria. But why is the principal trying to protect Maria? Because the principal, too, is a woman and she might already be familiar with the way boys are sexually abused by Maria, and she might have liked the way to punish boys. Or maybe, like most people, she believes that males do not have any dignity and that males don’t feel humiliated if they are stripped, unlike females. Such attitude, unfortunately, is becoming more and more pervasive in women, and it will expose young boys to be sexually abused in schools and even in their own homes. Assuming that no boy is sexually abused in their homes is empowering the perpetrators.  

Now even in television, we are seeing such despicable attitude in women. An episode shown on Mtv Roadies wherein two girls and a boy secretly entered into another contestant’s room at the time he came out of the shower, the girls began to pull the towel he had wrapped around his waist. He was fighting to protect his dignity and the girls were determined to humiliate him in front of the camera by stripping him naked. The boy was pleading to leave him alone, the girls were laughing out loud and the cameraman was shooting the whole scene of that boy’s helplessness. If a guy would have done such a thing to a girl, he would have been arrested by police for molesting a girl, but when a girl does it with a guy, we forget that the victim is a human being and we laugh it off. Such inhuman attitude toward that innocent boy is prevalent but none is bothered to understand that boys too have dignity and their dignity is no laughing stock for girls of today. Apparently, the society is, in a way, encouraging these girls to humiliate boys more and more by being inhuman toward male gender. Only time will tell how the society’s cruel treatment to male gender will backfire the whole coming generation.   

By letting Maria go scot-free will only encourage other teachers to resort to such methods to humiliate young boys, which is non-physical assault but extremely agonizing. Partially, the society, too, is a cooperative factor in the reason why justice will not be delivered to these young innocent children. Society does not feel the need to take strict legal action against Maria only because the victim happens to be a boy. Now teachers feel that by sexually abusing the kids, the kids will grow up to be a better and successful person. But as long as the society does not wake up to the 21st century women, the society will go from bad to worse in no time. And then the real fun will begin; the society will then get an explosive kick on their backside for blindly supporting all women and ill-treating male gender.Boys too are sexually abusedWoman can molest a manCan a woman rape?

Abortion and Foeticide

December 26, 2006

The only difference between abortion and foeticide is that sex determination test is not used in abortion. Mostly, unmarried women will abort their pregnancy for reasons known to all. Covering up her mistake by murdering the foetus is acceptable in the society. Yes, women have the legal powers (not rights) to murder her foetus. Foeticide happens when the pregnant woman first determines the gender of the baby and then decides to murder the foetus. That means killing foetus is women’s rights (?) and legal, but killing foetus “after” determining the gender of the baby is illegal and crime. Therefore, only the element of determination of gender of the baby differentiates between so-called rights and crime. 

More shocking is that the husband will be legally punished if he forces his wife to abort her pregnancy for whatever reasons. It is women’s sole prerogative to murder her foetus as she likes and when she likes. The husband has no say in her decision to kill her unborn baby. He has no rights to stop her wife to abort the pregnancy. Yes, Indian society still believes that women are better care-takers of children. Anyways, various laws are enacted to protect those women who want to murder their foetus without determining the gender of the baby. Laws are also enacted to protect women of female foeticide by falsely implicating the husband and in-laws for forcing her to have only male child.  

It will probably take some more time for people to realize that it is always the woman who desire to have a male child. However, men will have to pay the price to live in
India and marrying an Indian woman. There is an increasing number of bachelors who are realizing these days that they aren’t marrying an Indian woman, they are actually marrying a woman who has been given so many legal powers (not rights) that she is, by default, a legal extortionist and a legal blackmailer. It is not the question of being a good human being because it all depends on the woman’s intent to either let her husband live independently or legally harass him to become her slave. Who doesn’t want her husband to become her slave? It is romantic for a lot of woman to see her husband their slaves, and given the legal powers (not rights) to legally force the husband to become their slave is a dream come true for women. No, women are still portrayed as victims. Funny isn’t it? Don’t know what else they want as their legal powers (not rights).
 

The modern lifestyle of women has taken away their natural maternal instincts. They are absolutely clueless how to take care of their baby without the expert guidance of an elderly woman who either understands the needs of the baby or has not let the world damage her maternal instincts. Today’s mothers are impatient, reckless and short-tempered. There are several cases discovered where mothers have made a zombies out of their children by nagging them in a such manner that the child will do exactly what his/her mother will say. Sit, stand, walk, shut up, eat, sleep, drink, etc these are the orders received by the child from the mother, daily. Such treatment understandably damages the creativity and independent thinking of the child. Apparently, the father of the child is so much hen-pecked by the verbal domination of his wife that he can either support his wife whatever she is doing or run the risk of getting verbally spanked, nagged, emotionally tortured or maybe divorced too. Yes, this amounts of domestic violence on the husband but he is deprived of his fundamental rights to protect himself from his vicious wife.  

It is these kind of women who are given the powers (in the name of rights to deceive people) to kill their foetus by abortion. Meanwhile, NGOs aggressively propagate the female foeticide issue in order to procure funds from the Government, corporate World; international organizations etc so that they can utilize the funds not for the welfare of child, but to promote, enforce and strengthen women empowerment. UN says that women empowerment is important for the welfare of the children. Yes, because when the foetus is killed by the woman through abortion, the child is saved from coming into the World of female domination. Everybody knows that UN is taken over by radical feminists and vehement protest is going on against UN for destroying the sanctity of marriage and also altering the human civilization for the worst. Indian NGOs can’t control themselves and they too started their own pro-abortion and anti-male campaign to fool the public.  

Again, foetus, an unborn child, is living. Killing the foetus, before or after determining the gender, is a sin, if not a crime in female dominated society that we live in. In a female dominated society, crime does not apply to women because people are unable to understand their deception, and despite they understand their deception they refuse to oppose.

Indian Journalism

December 19, 2006

Journalists are traders of Truth. They empower the citizens of the country by communicating news on the current affairs. Millions of people decide upon their routine activities of their day-to-day life referring to the newspaper. Journalism is not just about communication of news from the source to the destination – to the common man. With numerous religions, linguistic and cultural diversity, various caste and community norms, Journalism, confronts several nagging challenges. In order to overcome those challenges, Press Council of India established essential guidelines to ensure accuracy, fairness and correctness.  

The element of independence in the press is crucial to maintain the quality of press and the code of conduct of journalism. Any external forces, political, social or international, with vested interest could easily influence the common people in the way that can be detrimental for the people as well as to the whole country through press, and to prevent such disaster, there is an element of ethics along with independence. Ethic refers to the conduct that ensures communal peace and harmony. Truth is not an excuse to sensationalism. When millions of different kinds of people are reading the same news, the damage could be fatal if facts are distorted and delusive news is propagated. Any indiscriminate diffusion of unreliable or unverified news could trigger an adverse chain reaction in the country, which could take months or even years to contain.  

The press is entitled to ensure financial viability by all legitimate means, but engaging in crass commercialization in cut-throat commercial competition with the rivals, will violate the code of conduct of journalism. Distortion or exaggeration of facts or incidents in relation to communal matters could easily trigger mass hysteria in the country. However, sensationalism in the press has seemingly proved commercially fruitful. With the incremental increase in the number of press organizations in the country, they seemingly adapted an unwritten code of conduct of journalism, which will ensure commercial gain and effective promotion of the press entity. Social responsibility of the press is subverted in the process of catching and entertaining the mindset of the people.  

Importance of reporting accurate, fair and correct news is now overpowered by the self-seeking commercial domination in the press industry. Noble, virtuous and courteous journalists are replaced by aggressive, interrogative and persistently fearless journalists. Reports published on a particular issue are getting judgmental and defamatory. Provocative compositions are employed to sensationalize issues or to prompt the people to think and behave in a certain way that may seem appropriate to the agenda of the press. Social agendas that are incompetently deliberated by the press have grievous consequences in the society, and that has been going on for long. They have been instigating repugnance between the people and some political parties so that other political parties are benefited. Questions in the poll conducted by press are so composed that the result achieved is as per their desire. People’s opinions are sought with biased questions that will derive answers that are beneficial for the press. 

After the feminist movement in
India, there has been a substantial growth of feminism in journalism. Women-related issues are given inordinate precedence due to which the quality of the press has significantly deteriorated. Increase in sophism has been observed with the increase in feministic journalism. The facts are getting distorted because of the preconception of the journalist, which is leading to perplexing transformation of the masses. Journalists are beginning to present facts in the fashion that appears appropriate to their own psyche. Social and National interests are getting defeated by the personal interests of the journalists. It has become an indispensable function of the press to cater to the political agendas of women groups. In the agenda of empowering women, feministic journalist are twisting the facts, exalting misconduct of women, amplifying crime against women, and infringing the rights of men. Male gender is criminalized and female-gender is labeled victims. People’s opinions are getting manipulated.
 

Press agendas are now getting amalgamated with the political ideologies. Agendas of the political pressure groups are been accomplished with the assistance of the press. People are misled by the press on the instructions of political pressure groups to believe delusive facts, which in particular, will give these pressure groups effective impetus to their vested interests. People are reading, hearing and seeing news what the political pressure groups want them to read, hear and see. Facts are distorted, truth is obscured, falsehood is rationalized, and slanderous statements are made only to achieve the ends of certain political agendas. Such deceptive conduct of the press has not yet been deemed a grave violation of the code of conduct of journalism as issued by the Press Council of India because they have yet to formulate strict disciplinary action toward the defaulters.  

Trial by press has been a common phenomenon in the recent times, which essentially violates the code of conduct of journalism. Investigative journalists are concluding the judicial judgment in the pre-trial period on half-baked incomplete and doubtful facts, which violates the fundamental rights of whose character is assassinated by the press. Press’s initiation to persistently pressurize the legal system to act in accordance with the agendas of the political pressure groups and feminists movement has lead to social inequality and injustice. And in order to conglomerate the sentiments of ill-informed people to support their own journalistic assault on the Governmental conduct, they sensationalize their own justification and blow the issue out of proportion. Judiciary is compelled to act in conformity to the expectations of the press in order to avert journalistic assault, irrespective of the nature and authenticity of the issue. Instead of setting a harmonious and communally peaceful environment, press has been indiscreetly disseminating noxious sentiments within the society for their own commercial benefits and appeasing political pressure groups. 

Press has now disempowered the people of the country. Truth is buried and vested interested of pressure groups are accomplished. Disorder and chaos is pervading the society, and people are helpless. People who are part of the political agenda are empowered and people who are excluded from the political agenda are abandoned ruthlessly.  

This is Indian Journalism. Who will stop them?    

Marriage crucified

December 19, 2006

Finally, women of
India have successfully crucified the sacred institution of marriage. First, the proliferation of misuse of IPC 498A (anti-dowry law), which has created much apprehension in the hearts of many families who are under constant threat of being falsely implicated under IPC 498A. When that was not enough to satisfy the modern sadist (women), they have now introduced Domestic Violence Bill in order to loot the husband and his family legally.
 

More than 60,000 cases are filed each year, 800,000 families are badly affected and more than 90% of the cases are false. Shocking!!! The more shocking is to know that women organizations and the Government are aware of these figures but are not willing to protect the husband and his family from being victimized in the hands of their unscrupulous wife/daughter-in-law. Media, too, shamelessly is not willing to accept the blame for not raising this serious issue in the public. It is very clear that the women organizations have deliberately instigated such a plot to harass innocent families and the Government is helping them to ruin marriages.   

It is important to note that those innocent people who have been falsely implicated didn’t commit any crime, but they had to pay a very large sum of money to their sleazy wife to settle the case. This situation is even worse than dowry. To top it all, Domestic Violence Bill gives ridiculous rights to women to loot their husband and in-laws legally. Women call this as gender equality. Some women are bold enough to blurt it out that now its men’s turn to suffer in pain. This clearly shows that sadistic approach in attaining gender equality. Unfortunately, with people’s ignorance and lack of empowerment, they are simply living their helpless life under constant threat, thanks to bias media.  

Anybody with reasonable maturity can figure out from these developments that women are not interested in gender equality; they are aiming for a World where men live like pet dogs to them who are stinking rich. Men will be legally obligated to live like pet dogs to women, earn lots of money and give it away to his wife, satisfy her sexual needs as and when, and finally to cheerfully dance on her tunes like a monkey.  

However, in order to create the balance of power between the two genders, men are now beginning to realize that women can’t be judged from their beauty. Men are becoming conscientious to an extent that they find it highly unreasonable to follow the age-old tradition of respecting, protecting and providing for women. They are now beginning to accept women as just another person in the society who can potentially hurt them. Now men will not fall for a beautiful and curvaceous woman having greed, jealousy and hatred in her heart. And there are plentiful of such women out there. This positive change will definitely shake the foundation of radical feminism. Needless to say, media will remain shameless and continue to protect the deception of women empowerment. 

Women had dug up a grave for men but it seems women are going to fall into it and men are going to have loads of laugh.

Extortion

December 19, 2006

Ramesh, a respectable businessmen and a caring family man, receives a phone call from an anonymous caller.  

Anonymous: “Ramesh, if you do not pay us Rs. 25 lakhs, we will kill you.”Ramesh agrees with the demands of the anonymous person and arranges to pay him Rs. 25 lakhs. But he also informs the police about the extortion call. The police plans to catch the culprit red-handed and the anonymous person does get caught and is punished with imprisonment and fine.  

The extortionists threatened to kill Ramesh if he does not agree to their demands. Under Indian Penal Code, this is a punishable crime.  

However, there are other methods to extort money from someone, which as incredible as it sounds, is not punishable crime.  

Who isn’t interested in getting a quick buck? Apparently, earning a quick buck is the prerogative of women in Indian society. 90% of the cases filed under dowry harassment case of IPC 498A are false confirms lawyers. 90%!!!! Apparently, the citizens of
India has no rights to demand an explanation as to why the IPC 498A hasn’t yet been amended to curb this misuse. After all, the opportunity to earn a quick buck by women misusing the laws isn’t openly disclosed, thanks to biased media.
 

The wife, who succeeded camouflaging her greed for money and power, goes to the police to file a case of false dowry harassment against her husband and in-laws. After discussing with her lawyer, the lawyer contacts the husband and in-laws and demands Rs. 25 lakhs to be paid to the wife if they want to settle the case amicably. Amicably?  

The husband, being aware of how biased the legal system is, decides to pay the money to his wife and seeks to settle the case. He pays because he is given an opportunity to sneak out of the strangle-hold of the legal system which considers all women as victims and all men as criminals. Incredibly, this whole extortion takes place right under the nose of the cops and they too seek to benefit from such a transaction.  

The husband attains freedom by paying a huge sum of money under the supervision of the police, the legal system makes sure that the rights of women are protected, and the wife goes away with a hefty sum of money by threatening the husband of legal consequences. Now that is an impressive way of earning a quick buck, legally. The wife goes home with a grin and observes that whatever she did, legal system, society, media and the government is with her. 

Women call this method of extortion as their rights. Rights?  

Bias against women

December 19, 2006

Indian women are relentlessly babbling about the bias a woman faces in
India. Let’s take a look at how true their claims are.
 

1) Taxable Income: It is an accepted fact that the financial responsibility of the family invariably lands on the male members of the family. Women have started earning and are enjoying every bit of bragging the media is doing on their behalf. However, the financial responsibility is on the man’s shoulder, the woman gets a preferential treatment as far as taxation is concern. Women have higher disposable income after tax than men even though men are obligated to provide the family. Isn’t this bias? According to women, this is bias against women as women are demanding more and more tax concession. When asked why, their answer is because they are women. Just because they are women, they have the right to get better than men and simultaneously demand men to provide them financially. Wouldn’t you call this bias against men?  

2) Media coverage: Women expect the public to react immediately on news about a woman in distress. Women organizations are putting enough political pressure on the media to cover only those issues where women are victims. At the same time, feminists in media are influencing the way people interpret news story with the help of words that would implicitly suggests that men are criminals and women are victims. The objective is to take away all credibility from the whole male-gender so that a woman is powerful enough to accuse anybody with anything. News of suicide committed by a woman hits the headlines whereas news of suicide committed by a man doesn’t even reach the news. Their aim is not only to sensitize people toward women but also to desensitize people toward men.  Wouldn’t you call this bias against men? 

3) Protective Laws: Laws are enacted to protect the citizen of the country. But in case of women, it is justified to misuse the laws to take revenge. Dowry harassment law has been so composed that women need not only file a dowry harassment case on their husband and in-laws when they harass her for dowry, she can also file a dowry harassment case on their husband and in-laws even when they don’t follow the rules made by her. Her rules could be 1) paying money to her parents 2) transferring the property, house to her name 3) kicking in-laws out of the house 4) making her husband submissive. All these are reasons that a woman can file dowry harassment case on her husband and in-laws. The police, in order to exploit the vulnerable position of the husband, will make every effort to settle the case with a huge monetary compensation paid to the woman. Husband who never demanded any dowry and never harassed his wife had to pay his wife huge sum of money only because he is a man. Wouldn’t you call this bias against men?  

4) Children: It is a proven fact that the computation of sex ratio is not accurate because it is based on predetermined assumptions, which are subjected to errors. Knowing this fact, women organizations are doing everything to influence the people with these questionable sex ratios in order to demand more rights for women. Knowing the ulterior motives of these unscrupulous women organizations, it will not be a surprise to see if females are born more than males, women organizations will continue to fabricate the reports to extract more legal rights for women. Who knows, maybe more females are born than males and they are concealed from the public. More women-centric serials are produced with these women issues as their theme to brainwash the people to think that women are victims, stronger and superior, and men are criminals, abusers and inferiors. Wouldn’t you call this bias against men?  

5) Education: Reports say that there are more males working as child labour than females. There are more males who drop out of the school forced by the family to start earning working as a labour. Despite these facts, the Government is forced to provide free education only for females on the instruction of women organizations who are exploiting the government’s stand on vote-bank politics. Women organizations want men to work as labour and women to work as top executives. They want men to remain illiterates so that they remain submissive to educated women. It is extremely disturbing that those little boys having great ambitions are forced to work as labour because of these devilish women organizations. Wouldn’t you call this bias against men?  

As long as these unscrupulous women organizations remain in the country,
India cannot progress. They are forgetting that women learn more from men than from women and if they want to ruin men’s life, they are actually ruining their own life. If you want respect, give respect. If women are insulting male-gender, their own gender will lose all respect. Excessive pampering of women-centric issues has infact made people more insensitive toward women and women only are to be blamed for their hate-mongering attitude.
 

Bias is only against men. It has always been men and now also men are on the receiving end. Not only women organizations but also the people who have been ignoring these negative development created by women are to be blamed for decadent condition of the society. All the claims made by women that there is bias against women are false.    

Feminists under fire

December 19, 2006

For decades feminists have flourished spectacularly and have invaded print media and television to voice their lists of rights that seemed alright for men. Not any more. Only recently, men are beginning to realize the inappropriate radicalism in feministic ideology, which they initially believed will attain gender equality, and are now willing to object on their one-sided feminists’ movement.  

By holding on to the sham belief that it’s a Man’s world, these feminists have managed to carve a niche for themselves where they continue to be called the weaker gender but still make all the rules not only for themselves but also for men. It is an important question to ask, “If men have all the powers, how come women make all the rules?” Men’s greatest weakness is that they can’t justify their weakness. Women’s greatest strength is that they can portray themselves as weak.  

When men began realizing the deception behind feminism and all those issues concerning gender equality and women empowerment, they began their aggressive movement onto the internet because media weren’t willing to challenge women organizations. At first, they were brutally rebuked by the people but now people are beginning to realize that what has been written on the internet about deceptive feminism is actually true. Even the media has come under pressure from e-defense of men against feministic attacks. Men have finally decided to throw away all traditional inhibitions and have started to object vigorously against women. This was something these feminists had never imagined.  

The number of men’s organization working on the internet to spread awareness about the deceptive feminism, gender equality and women empowerment has been steadily increasing and soon the media will be forced to expose this deception to the whole nation. This deception has only increased the hatred in women towards men. Now men are realizing that gender equality policy is a zero sum game. Men need to lose for women to win. This is no longer acceptable for men, which has become a major concern for the women organizations all over the World. Men are also finding it highly offensive when these feminists are producing male-bashing advertisements to encourage women to ridicule men.  

The deceptive feministic ideology, which gave women legal control over men, is no longer effective enough for women to rule the world and are now beginning to feel apprehensive about their fate that was built on falsehood. It seems that now women are realizing that what they wanted to achieve will not only put men at the receiving end but will also put their own respect in the society in jeopardy. People are becoming insensitive toward women seeing the way women are progressing and demanding ludicrous rights making men vulnerable and defenseless. They want all the rights but are shamelessly shunning all responsibility and accountability.  

It is unfortunate that people had accepted the feminist ideology that men should lose for women to win. However, there are some people in media who are stubbornly portraying women as oppressed by men and it would not be a surprise if these people are women. Just a few women in power are propagating their hate-mongering attitude onto all the women of the country with the help of media, either by showing male-bashing advertisements, publishing one-sided dowry cases and/or showing women as victims and men as criminals. It is a shame that there is none to object against these anti-social activities of these feminists. People’s increasing insensitiveness toward women was inevitable, thanks to these hate-mongering feminists. 

If women wants to be respected, then they must respect men. They can’t go on hating men and exploit the Indian tradition and victimize men legally. If women will harass men, men will fight back.  

Male-bashing advertisements

December 19, 2006

The only way women’s status can be improved is by representing men as criminals, stupid, irresponsible and abusers. This is what the new-age advertising code of conduct is all about.  With the increasing feminists working in advertising agencies, their male-hating attitude clearly oozes from their advertisements. It is no longer about women becoming stronger and achieving their potentials. It is now about how to make all men submissive to a woman’s domination.  

It is now not uncommon to see a woman slapping a man in advertisements. If it is wrong for man to hit a woman, why are these feminists trying to justify a woman hitting a man? Sociologists say that these are an encouragement to women to get physical with men, which will definitely hurts a man’s sensibilities and will also damage woman’s status in the society. Some male-hating women working in advertising agencies are coming up with creative ideas to ridicule men’s masculinity making men ashamed of their own self. This can be said to be am ingenious idea to empower women to control men but in the long run, women will prove to be a loser.  

It is a shame that Advertising agencies have lost all ethical code of conduct and have begun producing such anti-social male-bashing advertisements. Gender equality is not about making men inferiors with the help of such advertisements and woman-centric serials that portray men as criminals, abusers, oppressors, stupid or senseless. This is happening in foreign countries too and men’s organizations have begun protesting against this attack. But in
India, there are no men’s organizations to fight against this injustice and inappropriate representation of male-gender.
 

By showing men as inferiors to women will only increase the gender gap and that can be clearly seen in the increasing number of divorce cases. Who is responsible for this sad condition of our society? These hate-mongering feminists have gone too far and needs to be disciplined by enforcing strict guidelines on advertisements. Any derogatory advertisement toward male-gender must invite legal action against the culprit.   

Stop male-bashing advertisements. Enough is enough. By resorting to such male-bashing advertisements to empower women is a sign of cowardice and shamelessness.

Husbands are often assaulted by their wife

December 19, 2006

Women are always the victims of domestic violence and men are the main culprits. In order to protect women, domestic violence bill has been passed, on the proposal of women’s group.  

Let us see how the above perception of the general public gets shattered when we come across cases such as this given in here.  

It is disturbing to know that only when a woman’s complaint is proved false, that is precisely when we get to know that, as a matter of fact, the husband was subjected to domestic violence, let alone those husbands who are not yet falsely accused under the criminal case of 498A by his wife but still they continue to suffer the domestic violence.  

A woman can never hurt a man because a man is physically stronger than women. But, what if a man is under a tremendous emotional pressure where he is unable to defend himself from the assault of his wife? Then wouldn’t it be logical to believe that women are physically stronger than men when it comes to marriage because men usually tolerate their wife’s regular tantrums? Thanks to the society for considering wife’s cruel tantrums as part and parcel of a marriage life for men.  

Out of many thousand cases, there is a need to mention one case where a wife subjected her husband to physical torture and still went to the police station to lodge a complaint against her husband of domestic violence. Weird isn’t it? 

http://www.telegraphindia.com/1060609/asp/bengal/story_6329925.aspThis is precisely what happened in Jalpaiguri, where a couple, Ishani and Sumana got married. Sumana, 30-year-old woman, started assaulting her husband so cruelly that he used to bleed at night. Now when a man begins to bleeding, it surely is convincing evidence that his wife would have assaulted him very cruelly.   

The battered husband, Ishani, then learnt that his wife was a psychiatric patient who was under medication. The innocent husband was denied vital facts about Sumana before marriage. Concealing vital facts about a woman from the prospective groom before marriage isn’t something new. It happens most of the time and when the husband comes to know about the truth, it is already too late.  

Sumana expressed her desire to meet her parents and left to Asansol – a place. Sumana lodged a police complaint as soon as she reached there. She made her complaint under IPC section 498A, already notorious for being largely misused by women in
India.
 

Ishani was immediately arrested and was sent him to jail. The person who was subjected to cruelty is arrested and sent to jail. This is how our judicial system works. Instead of arresting Sumana, they arrested Ishani and was sent to jail. 

He then moved the high court, which granted him bail after knowing that he who had been physically abused and not the other way round. What if he couldn’t prove his innocence? He would have been sent to jail for 7 years rigorous imprisonment just like those men who couldn’t disprove the false allegation of their wife under IPC 498A.  

It would be a mistake to consider the above case as an exception because 498A is massively misused in our society and in most of the cases women are the ones who cruelly treat their husbands. Ishani’s life is ruined now. Who is responsible? Sumana, his wife, Sumana’s parents who concealed vital facts about her, or our judicial system, who has given a legal protection to women which is excessively biased.  

But the good news is that more and more men’s organizations are opening up in the country because they are realizing that women are not the only ones who are victims, men too are victimized and unfortunately, the legal system is favoring only women.  

Don’t be surprised when you see many more men’s organization been established to protect the basic rights of men. But, beware that women are potentially capable to victimize men emotionally, physically, and legally. Next time you see a woman filing a case against her husband, chances are that she has filed a false case.

Patriarchy is politicized

December 19, 2006

Politics!! Indian politics is so dirty that none of us miss a single opportunity to bring up the subject in our conversation with our friends or relatives. It probably gives veto to our bottled up anger for the infrastructure, corruption, pollution and judicial system.  

Innumerable bollywood movies are made showing the corruption in our political system and none of us get surprised to see it. We simply say, “These corrupts bloodsuckers are here to kill our country and the people and they should be shot dead”, and then we come back to our senses and continue to live the same way like before as if we saw nothing.  

The people of large metropolitan cities are so smart and mature that they know all the tricks of these politician’s promises to woo their support. And politicians are aware that people of the large cities are not willing to vote for them. And therefore, the obvious route to political success is supporting those people living in the under-developed areas of the country who look upon these politicians as the last resort. Yes, they think these politicians can help them. Help them! Yeah right.  

A new political agenda has been established recently that stubbornly follows the patriarchy ideology. And we all are aware that the essence of patriarchic ideology is protecting and providing women. Politicians are ever ready to help a needy woman anticipating that she will then drive other women to vote for that politician. In this process, women too aren’t going to miss this opportunity; they extracted as much legal support as possible to an extent that any person is naturally intimidated from women as a person is afraid to go into a thick forest in the night with no lights.  

Politicians are more than happy to realize that their strategic political agenda of extravagantly supporting women has finally paid off. Besides, if at all they care a little about the repercussion of such an anti-social agenda that could jeopardize the social harmony, they wouldn’t have got into politics, would they? Why would they care about the common man? As long as they are getting their estimated votes to keep them in power by approving lopsided laws for women, they are going paste a wide smile on their face, aren’t they? 

The people who are actually suffering the most in the current scenario are the men. How much ever we praise a man for enduring the colossal pressure from work, family, society and the country, it is not enough. Men have proved that they are men. They might have been on the receiving end, they might be silently suffering, and their ordeal also might have been brutally ignored by the society, but their resilience and endurance; may God be with them.  

Every man in our society has proved to be a hero. He lives for others – first, for his parents, then for his wife and later for his children. Who lives for him? Nobody. He is all by himself in this political country where men are mere numbers and women are human beings. Men are cruelly abandoned by the society who is supposed to be indebted to men. It is disheartening to observe that along with the politicians, women too are marginalizing male-gender to be the stronger gender of the country behind the curtains of patriarchic ideology.  

The whole patriarchic ideology that establishes an obligation on all men to protect and provide has taken away all his human rights, thanks to the politicians for politicizing patriarchic ideology into their political agenda. Women, too, would find is enticing to present biased legal proposal so that they can control men and put them on the receiving end. Why wouldn’t they do so? Isn’t it attractive an opportunity for women to propose a biased law to support women when the politicians are offering them to approve any of their proposals?  

If the political system is with women, if men are obligated to protect and provide women, then who is with men? Who is with men? Who is going to support and protect men?  

The political agenda of giving extravagant support to women has not yet reached it peak and God forbid, if it reaches, this blog too will be deleted by the women’s group because they would even rule the internet – since they have already taken over media.  

Think about it. Who is with men? Who? Can you expect justice where you are just a number and women are human beings? Can you expect any justice when you are falsely accused of some crime you never committed by a woman when the whole judiciary favours only women? Can you expect any political support when the political agenda is to support only women? 

We men are left all alone. All alone. Abandoned in our own country. But, as long as there are men who support justice irrespective of gender, will prevail. The only thing they can do is speak out. Keeping quiet will only make their life difficult. Live in constant legal intimidation from women or live with pride. Don’t let the politicians politicize patriarchy. It is taking away men’s rights. Choice is yours.